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Invitations should be ordered four to six months before the wedding
date and mailed four to six weeks before the wedding. They are mailed
first class, with a small stamp placed neatly on the right-hand
corner. Put the enclosure cards and invitation in the two envelopes
and take one to the post office to have it weighed before putting
stamps on all of them. If the invitation needs additional postage,
this will prevent guests from receiving invitations marked “Postage
Due.”
An invitation is enclosed in two envelopes, the inner one enclosing
the invitation, tissue if used, and the accompanying cards. The
outer envelope protects the inner one and is addressed to the recipient’s
name and address. The addressing of invitations is done by hand,
with a fountain pen and black ink. Some stores now offer “machine
calligraphy” on the envelopes. Both the outer and inner envelopes
should be addressed in the same handwriting or by the machine. Avoid
abbreviations! Leave the inner envelope unsealed and address it
to “Mr. and Mrs. Jones,” without using first names or
addresses. Include younger children by writing their names on a
line beneath their parents’ names.
Invitations should be sent to all members of the wedding party and
the officiant. Children over sixteen should also receive a personally
addressed invitation. Order at least twenty-five additional invitations
to allow for guests you may have overlooked, as well as for addressing
errors. Before ordering your invitations, verify that the day and
date correspond with the calendar.
Announcements
Wedding announcements are sent to special individuals you are unable
to invite to the wedding possibly due to space limitations or distance.
They are mailed the day of the wedding. A person invited to the
wedding is never sent an announcement.
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